I got in a fairly serious fight with my boyfriend weeks ago. He would accuse me of things that I had never done and other things. He is deployed and I know it is a lot of stress for him but I finally had it. I didn’t talk to him for a few days so I could think about things and so he can realize the situation he had put us in. After a long talk with him I gave him another chance so he can prove to me he wont do it again, (accusing me of things, calling me a liar, dictating how I do my hair and the clothes that I wear, who I can and cannot hang out with, who I can and cannot snap chat with). Now that I have given him this chance he has gone money crazy and is buying me everything I talk to him about and its things I just say that are nice and I don’t even ask for. He says he isn’t trying to buy my love but it seems that way. And if anything, him doing all of this makes me more mad instead of making me happy. I am very greatful for the things he has gotten me but I don’t feel as if it is okay for him to be doing this. I just don’t know what to do with this situation. If anyone could give me advice I would greatly appreciate it….